2008 – I was in my first year of B-school. Four of us took an all-girls trip to Chennai followed by Pondicherry. The trip was my first sojourn with my girlfriends and the city mesmerized me with its beauty, cleanliness, and calmness. The sea was both rough and serene here. And the environment of the Aurobindo ashram had a deep impact on my thoughts.
2011 – After the sudden demise of my mother, grief had engulfed my life in a way that rendered me static at Mysore.
2012 – this was the first city that my husband had coaxed me to visit. He insisted that a change of location was needed for my mental health.

This picture was clicked from the room of the hotel in Pondicherry where we had been put up. The balcony had the most gorgeous view of the sea. I sat out for hours gazing at the sea. Probably it was the enormity of the sea here that absorbed some of my pain during that phase.
Today when I look at this picture, I see a perfect frame of a beautiful world captured by a person in the most imperfect state of mind, fighting her inner demons.
(195 words)
This is the twelfth and last post (nonfiction) written as part of the #MyfriendAlexa campaign on the theme ‘Shades of Perception’. You can read the previous eleven posts here.
This post is part of the Tuesday Photo Challenge on the theme ‘Our World’ this week.
Linking up with Wordless Wednesday created by Esha and Natasha.
Aurobhindo aashram has a unique env. Anyone looking for peace will get it here! But Pondy is known for other reason due to low taxes 🙂
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Ha ha, I get that Mahesh. I guess my interest was confined to the sea and Ashram.
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Can really understand your feelings while writing this post
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Thank you so much for reading
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Must be a beautiful place to stay. Serene and peaceful ❤️
My next travel destination 🙏 (Hope)
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I think you will love it. Thanks for reading.
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A very poignant and heartfelt account Sonia. Could sense your pain, loss and hopelessness through your words. A big hug to you for coming out strong and finding hope and purpose again. Stay strong and stay full of hope.
BTW Pondicherry is my hometown and I can completely understand what aurobindo ashram had done for your restless mind and soul. ❤️❤️
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Oh wow, you’re from one of my favorite places in the country. Someday I really want to meet you. I feel so connected to you. Thank you for reading.
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The feeling is mutual Sonia. Looking forward to meeting a lovely person like you.
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❤️❤️❤️
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I agree it is a beautiful, perfect photo. Maybe you needed this to see the vast and all-encompassing mother nature. I love the sea as well. It is so calming in spite of the waves.
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Nature has played a big part in healing my soul. Thanks for reading.
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I have been to Pondicherry but I didn’t get an opportunity to stay near the beach. It was many years ago when it was not so popular!
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I think you will like it even today. It wasn’t so commercialized till 2012 atleast. Thanks for reading.
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My last visit was 14 years before that 🙂
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How beautiful…there is a certain serenity in your writing sonia
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Thank you for reading and the extremely generous words.
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The sea can have such profound healing impact. I wrote this really long story around the sea. In retrospect I think it served to answer my own obsession with the sea.
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Very true. Probably it is the enormity or the depth that makes me feel so tiny in front of it. Share the link of your piece pls. I would love to read it.
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It’s my ebook from last year actually. https://www.theblogchatter.com/download/mayank-by-suchita-agarwal/
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Will check this out.
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May you always see such beautiful world with your loved one.
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Thank you for much for reading
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Looking at the vast expanse of the ocean does that to me, too. You share your pain with it and it embraces you with such a fierce love, you feel overwhelmed!
Hugs, my dear! I could hear your aching heart!
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The more I write about this, the more I feel better. Somehow a part will always have the pain having a numb effect but I’m getting better. Thanks for reading.
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🤗🤗🤗Sonia!
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❤️❤️
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I’ve always been healed by the walking along a beach and viewing the sea. There is just something about the largeness of it all that makes me realize that God is control of my life! Hugs, Sonia.
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Thank you Corinne. I have always been in love with mountains but it is strange that I have felt the most healing effect while bring near the sea.
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“Is the glass half empty or half full?” … That’s life.
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Very true. It is all about the perspective. Thanks for reading.
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Pondicherry has a fair share of happy memories for us. It was our first outing with my elder kid. Along with it the peace and tranquillity found in Pondicherry are something that I would never forget. Glad you could find the peace in your heart there.
#readbypreetispanorama
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I love the city. Someday I plan to take my son there. Thanks for reading.
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