This picture is from my wedding in 2011. Though the Hindu Bengali wedding is full of such beautiful moments, this particular scene is a personal favorite. I feel that this frame depicts one of the most poignant moments of my marriage. For me, it signifies that two souls united by the threads of love, trust, and understanding have chosen to walk together in this new phase of life.
If you want to read more about Bengali weddings, you can read my personalized post here.
An alumnus of Presidency College (Kolkata), Delhi University, and XIME (Bangalore), Sonia Chatterjee holds two post-graduate degrees in Chemistry and Management and an MFA in creative writing from Writer's Village University. With eight years of experience in the banking sector as a Branch Head, she took a sabbatical from the corporate world to start her blog soniasmusings.com. Her blog consistently featured in the Top Indian Blogs list from 2019 to 2024.
Her articles have been published on various digital platforms such as Women's Web, Youth Ki Awaaz, Tuck's Magazine, and Period Magazine. She was invited as a speaker at the Breaking Barriers, Kolkata 2018 event by the Women's Web, at the Women Writer’s Fest, Kolkata, 2020, and the Crime Writers Festival, Kolkata,2025.
Sonia has written two detective thrillers titled ‘Deal of Death – Introducing Raya Ray’ (2019) and ‘Diary, Deceit, and Death – A Raya Ray Adventure’ (Vishwakarma Publications, 2024) and a non-fiction book on true crime titled ‘The Sanyasi Who Became a King’ (Sristhi Publishers, 2025). Her book ‘Diary, Deceit, and Death’ was shortlisted for the PVLF Awards 2024-25 in the Best Fiction Category.
Sonia lives in Kolkata with her doctor husband and nine-and-a-half-year-old son.
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Thank you Sona. I totally agree with you that wedding pictures indeed make us nostalgic.
Actually bengali weddings have no concept of mehendi. But thanks to Bollywood and people like me who have spent a lot of time outside the state, mehendi has become an integral part of our rituals too. I chose this design. Infact had one on the legs as well because I love mehendi.
Love this candid, natural shot of a treasured moment. I can hear the oolu somehow and the images of a Bengali wedding flash in my head.
Lovely post Sonia, thAnk you for linking up with us on #WE
Love this candid, natural shot of a treasured moment. I can hear the oolu somehow and the images of a Bengali wedding flash in my head.
Lovely post Sonia, thank you for linking up with us on #WW.
I don’t know much about Bengali weddings so I will visit your post but as you said, this does capture a very tender moment in a ceremony of deep significance.
I love wedding photographs. The candid captures take into account so many things- love, togetherness, a step forward on a long journey. Stay blessed and happy always. 🙂
I love the colours and like Natasha, I can imagine the sounds, but the symbolism speaks the loudest! Thank you for sharing this beautiful, personal moment, Sonia.
it’s so beautiful ❤️❤️
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Thank you for reading.
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Such a lovely picture, Sonia. Somehow, our wedding pics evoke such a mixture of memories. Joy, warmth and the trepidation of new beginnings.
I saw the Mehndi on your hands. Such a lot of it! We have only till elbows.
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Thank you Sona. I totally agree with you that wedding pictures indeed make us nostalgic.
Actually bengali weddings have no concept of mehendi. But thanks to Bollywood and people like me who have spent a lot of time outside the state, mehendi has become an integral part of our rituals too. I chose this design. Infact had one on the legs as well because I love mehendi.
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And here I thought that Bengalis have a lot of mehndi for the weddings because of your photo.
I think it’s good to take traditions from different parts of the country and make them your own 🙂
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So true. Thanks for reading.
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Love this candid, natural shot of a treasured moment. I can hear the oolu somehow and the images of a Bengali wedding flash in my head.
Lovely post Sonia, thAnk you for linking up with us on #WE
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Love this candid, natural shot of a treasured moment. I can hear the oolu somehow and the images of a Bengali wedding flash in my head.
Lovely post Sonia, thank you for linking up with us on #WW.
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Haha. I am sure you can identify with this picture. Thanks for reading. I am loving #WW.
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I don’t know much about Bengali weddings so I will visit your post but as you said, this does capture a very tender moment in a ceremony of deep significance.
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Thank you for stopping by and reading.
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I enjoyed reading your wedding post. I’ve never attended a Bengali wedding so was very interesting. Lovely pics too.
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Glad you liked it. Thanks for reading.
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Opashe ki Tanmoy? 😛 just kidding !
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Ha ha, you know the answer.
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I love wedding photographs. The candid captures take into account so many things- love, togetherness, a step forward on a long journey. Stay blessed and happy always. 🙂
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Thank you Shailaja for reading. Glad you liked it.
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I love the colours and like Natasha, I can imagine the sounds, but the symbolism speaks the loudest! Thank you for sharing this beautiful, personal moment, Sonia.
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Thank you Corrine for reading. Glad you liked it.
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Such a beautiful picture, Sonia!
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Thank you Aditi.
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What a beautiful moment captured here 😊
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Thank you. Glad you liked it.
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awww this is just beautiful Sonia. I have many Bengali friends but never got a chance to attend a Bengali wedding. You look fab!
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Two souls united, indeed. More love to you both.
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Thank you Soumya for the wonderful wishes.
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I absolutely love that shot! I clicked one picture at my friend’s wedding and that remains my absolute favorite. Will post it on IG 🙂
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Really? I would love to see it. Let me know when you update it on IG.
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What’s you IG handle?
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https://www.instagram.com/soniasmusings
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Yes! Followed 🙂 and tagged you on two pics to check out 🙂
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Yaay.
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Not everyone is lucky to get a memorable picture from the wedding! With so many formalities and photoshoots, its bit difficult. Seems u r lucky.
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Very true Mahesh. I have some candid clicks by few of our friends and this was one such picture.
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Nice
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