On 13th Sep last year, when I took the plunge to switch my career choice from being a corporate employee to a solopreneur with this blog, I honestly hadn’t expected this journey to be one of the best experiences in my life. After moving back to Kolkata in 2016, I had decided to take a sabbatical. The purpose was to step back from the jazz of being a high-profile Banker and analyze what made me the happiest. Between being a hands-on mother to an infant and reading every single book that I could lay my hands on, I realized that I looked forward to the quiet time every night when I gave a structure to my thoughts by writing them down in my diary. This had become my coping mechanism to deal with my mother’s sudden demise and then a routine that I enjoyed the most.

I also have an honest confession to make here. I doubt if I could have broken the mold and ventured into this new territory hadn’t I taken some time off to get used to the phase of salary credit messages not arriving every month end and rewards and recognition parties not happening every quarter. Also becoming a mother had suddenly brought about a spectrum of change in my priorities.
I really didn’t have a plan when I started out. I wrote on topics that I was fond of like food, travel, movies, and books. Either the narrative was based on my personal experiences or it was of the nature of a review. It felt great when celebrities, authors and restaurant management appreciated the efforts through a message or a re-tweet. The personal journey category came next and it is still one of my favorite corners of the blog. Just before my toddler started his preschool, I decided to write about parenting based on the current stage in my life. It took me a while to write about topics closest to my heart like normalizing breastfeeding, the taboo associated with menstruation and gender stereotyping as part of my social issues column. They were all based on my perspective and experience. My confidence got a boost when multiple articles were featured and trended on portals like Women’s web, Youth Ki Awaaz, Momspresso among others.

Until this period, I rarely read or interacted with other bloggers. I realized my approach was incorrect at different levels I participated in the Blogchatter A2Z challenge in April. It involved a lot of dialogues and suddenly I was exposed to a wonderful community of bloggers and their fabulous work. My blog had started receiving a good number of visitors as well. This was also the period when I heard of other blogging communities like Indiblogger and BlogAdda.
The next best thing happened in May when I turned an author with my debut Detective novella ‘Deal of Death’ as part of the Blogchatter Ebook carnival. From a blogger, I had transitioned into a published author. June brought along the Write Tribe festival of words followed by Bar-A-Thon in July. I had finally discovered my love for writing fiction and flash fiction posts. It was thrilling to weave a story around a prompt in a restricted number of words. Quite a number of posts made it to the featured section and the top posts in Indiblogger. August brought in a pack of surprises. All the posts written on WOW prompts won the WOW badge by BlogAdda. But the best was when one of my stories made it to the nine winning stories in the Lights, camera, Chatter contest by Blogchatter and I went on to narrate it live on FB. I wrapped up the month winning the Muse of the Month contest by Women’s Web.

September began with a positive note as I won the first prize in a blogging contest. But what I really look forward to is the new journey that I am about to begin as I take on the role of an invited speaker guest at the Women’s web Breaking Barriers event in Kolkata this weekend.
Overall, the experience has been extremely satisfying and humbling. Summarizing my learnings in just six points, I would say –
1. Read, reciprocate and engage – I would call this my biggest takeaway for the first year. When I started out, I would publish my post and wait to be discovered. I rarely visited or read others. It is essential to understand that without engaging in a meaningful conversation with others, there’s very little that we can achieve in the blog-o-sphere. Do note the word ‘meaningful’ here. It goes beyond the great post, well written, nice story kind of comments.
2. Optimum utilization of social media for promotions – As much as it is necessary to write, it is also important to promote it on social media for wider reach. However, I would suggest not to overdo it. I have received good response using FB and Twitter as a medium. It is only recently that I have started focusing on Instagram and Pinterest still seems like a far-fetched dream. Having said that, I would emphasize the fact that great content definitely gets rewarded eventually.
3. Do not hesitate to seek help – During the initial months of blogging, I had been snubbed by a senior blogger for asking some ‘frivolous’ questions. We have definitely moved beyond that incident today but this bitter experience conditioned my mindset in a way that I stopped seeking out help. It was only after I met Maya, my closest friend in the virtual world that I realized the technicalities of blogging isn’t so difficult. I will also be eternally grateful to another close friend of mine Ashvini for being a great support and introducing me to the wonder-woman of the blogging world Shailaja. It is really difficult to meet a person as helpful and knowledgeable as her. I have met so many amazing bloggers and writers of late that I realized how vibrant the blogging community is.
4. Take your time to find your niche – Despite the fact that I got a lot of appreciation for my movie reviews and recognition for my articles on other portals, it was only after ‘Deal of Death’ released that I figured out where my heart lay. I started putting my heart and soul into my stories as I transitioned into a fiction writer. In the near future, I have plans of starting a YouTube channel dedicated to the art of storytelling and narration camera.

5. Explore other possibilities in the same domain – I always prefer to call myself a writer because that covers both aspects of being a blogger and a published author. Now I also add the term storyteller to describe my profession and I am looking forward to donning the cap of a speaker next. I have grabbed every relevant opportunity to explore something new and it has turned out to be beneficial.
6. The long-term vision of sustainability – When I started out, my tagline read ‘Embarking on a new journey’ because that described my state. With time, I realized that my blog was basically very high on emotions. Recently, I redefined the tagline as ‘Words, photos & emotions’ summarizing what this blog is all about. Whether blogging is a hobby or a full-time profession, there needs to be a purpose of its existence. As a matter of principle, I don’t do promotions irrelevant to my blog. I have lost out on the financial gains but it makes me happy.
It has been a great year with the booming stats, awards, and recognition. I hope to work harder and bring in stories of wider variety in the future. Thank you for the continued support and love. I’m planning a surprise as part of the birthday celebration very soon, so stay tuned for further details.



Wow, such an amazing journey Sonia and many many congrats to you for achieving great milestone during 1 year of short journey. all the best for all future venture. keep rocking dear
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Thank you Surbhi for the wishes and encouraging words.
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Such an eventful journey you have had. wishing you luck in the future.
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Thank you Ruby for the kind wishes.
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Wow! Such a detailed and amazing post. The points you’ve shared really make sense but I love how you gave the intro… I love such personal posts
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Thank you for the kind words. I am glad you feel there’s value in the learnings that I have shared.
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Wonderful post Sonia. You have taken a right decision and wish you all the best for your blogging journey and mom journey.
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Thank you so much for the encouraging words Deepa. I look up to bloggers like you who are doing such amazing work. You inspire me to do better.
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Congratulations dear
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Thank you.
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WOW!… A detailed and insightful post.
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Thank you fo reading.
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Amazing and inspiring journey. You have some great achievements to your credit 👍🏻
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Thank you for the kind words.
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Finding niche is absolutely important first step. Congratulations to you for finding happiness in what you are doing.
#MyFriendAlexa #Momlearningwithbaby #Blogchatter
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Completely agree with you on this. I feel niche writing brings out the best in us. Thank you for reading and appreciating.
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Amazing journey you have as a writer. And congrats for all your success. I love your spirit and effort in the blogosphere.
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Vasantha, I’m inspired by writers like you who are doing such amazing work. Thank you for appreciating and encouraging my efforts.
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Thanks much, dear! You made my day!
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What an inspiring post! It has brought some great tips for new bloggers.Congratulations Sonia for your achievements in such short span of time. Keep writing!
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Thank you, Surabhi for the extremely kind words.
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Such a transparent post written from heart Sonia. Congratulations for the first successful year. May you achieve your dreams soon. All the best for your journey.
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Thank you, Jaya for the kind words and wishes. I wish you all the best in your new journey as well.
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Congratulations Sonia
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Thank you Esha
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Thanks a lot for sharing your journey as a solopreneur!!! It was amazing and inspiring for all fellow bloggers and aspiring writers.
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Thank Adi for the kind words. I am humbled that you find it inspiring.
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Great success story. All the power to you.
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Thank you, Abhijit for being a great support.
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Lovely post. The pointers are just apt and I totally agree that ur content should be sustainable plus keep seeking and asking help. You learn a lot
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Thank you, Sonam. I am glad you feel there’s value in my learnings.
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I have known a little more about you, Sonia. I have stopped promoting my post on FB groups as they hardly bring any traffic compared to efforts. Trying some new stuff instead.
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I am glad to come across a blogger friend like you though I wish it didn’t take so long. Let me know what you are experimenting with. I would love to try out as well.
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Wonderful journey and so many take aways for a hobby blogger like me as I want to seriously concentrate on blogging now.
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Suhasini, you have a great content. I personally enjoy reading about your little one through his words. I am sure you are going to reach heights of success. Just hold on to the passion my dear.
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Congratulations Sonia for reaching this landmark. Thanks for sharing your wonderful journey.
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Thank you for reading and appreciating.
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What a journey.. Congratulations and all the best
#sindhureads #myfriendalexa
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Thank you for the wishes.
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Your journey has been amazing. And congrats on your debut book. Btw I must agree, Shailaja is indeed a wonder woman in blogging world 🙂
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Thank you for the wishes Ranjini. Shailaja inspires me at so many levels.
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Reading this filled me with so much joy and just a tiny little bit of envy! Your journey has been amazing and it is one that I continue to try and emulate. Great work!!
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Arjun, you are one person who has been a constant source of inspiration to me since A2Z challenge. We all learn from each other and if you feel my journey has been amazing, I am really humbled. I wish you all the best in everything you do. The sky is the limit for you, my friend.
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So inspirational! You’ve achieved so much in just one year! Congratulations Sonia! This is the dream 🙂
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Thank you, Sonam for the extremely kind words.
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This post is an inspiration to do many aspiring writers like me. Thanks for sharing about your journey with us.
Best wishes to you.
Rashmi
http://Www.notjustmommying.com
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Thank you, Rashmi for reading. I wish you all the best in your journey.
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First, Congrats. This has not come easy, and we can understand the struggles and sacrifices you had to go through. Hard work always pays off. Wearing so many hats at same time, and still excelling in each, is a big achievement. You certainly have a special writing skills for those fictions, keep exploring more in that direction.
Wishes to achieve more success in coming days! Good luck.
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Thank you, Mahesh. I have come across such inspiring writers like you that I get inspired to do better. Thank you for being a great friend and support.
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I think about quitting my full time job and hesitate too! I am happy for you that it worked out! Hope you find higher successes. 🙂
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Thank you for your wishes. I wish you all the best in the choice you make.
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Amazing journey. Congratulations for your milestones. I am sure there are many to coming in near future. Blogging isn’t that easy how it looks to the outside world and people who are into it only know how much effort and hard work it takes for every single writing piece to touch the reader’s heart.
#MothersGurukulreads #Myfriendalexa
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Thank you, Alpana. I am inspired by writers like you who are doing such wonderful work. And you are so right. Blogging is a tough domain but hardly get the due respect it deserves.
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What an eventful debut year you’ve had, Sonia! All your hard work has borne fruit. Those are some really helpful tips there, for beginners and regular bloggers alike.
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Thank you so much Mayuri for the kind words. I am inspired by writers like you who have been doing such amazing work in this field.
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Good luck on the new journey
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Thank you for the kind wishes.
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Happy Blogiversary! I love the learnings you shared form the your journey.
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Thank you so much Damyanti. It’s been a privilege knowing a warm blogger friend like you.
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Sonia you are doing great! To tell you a secret, it was your passion for blogging that motivated me to get back to the groove… I wish you all the success in whatever you do… You have done amazing works during this short span of a year and continue to do so…
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Haimantidi, your comment has made me the happiest. I never knew that you were a blogger otherwise last year onwards I would have picked your brains for advice. But I am so glad that you are back. And this lil sister of yours has your back, so go ahead and create the magic that you are capable of.
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An inspiring journey to bookmark! Congratulations Sonia for taking right decision at the right time:)
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Thank you, Aditi. I am glad as well 🙂
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Wishing your blog a very happy birthday, and congratulations dear! Thank you for sharing your journey with us… it serves as guiding light for newbies like me! Hope to follow your footsteps to a successful writer! Here’s to wishing many more feathers in your cap!
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Thank you so much Surbhi. I am glad that you found it helpful. I have shared the learnings that I wish somebody had told me during my initial days. You are doing great my dear and I’m sure you are going to reach the peak of success very soon. Love.
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I always thought you were an experienced blogger! Goes to show what can happen if you put your mind to it. Well done!
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I’m in awe of the variety of work you do Lavanya. I hope I get some percentage of creativity from you.
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I see modesty is just another of those things that comes naturally to you.
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You are too kind. ❤️❤️
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Such an inspiring read! Thanks for sharing!
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Glad to hear that you find it inspiring. Thank you for reading.
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for one year, this is absolutely superb… still remember the A to Z series too 🙂
Congrats and keep up the good work.
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Thank you for reading, the warm wishes and helping me sort out my blog. I am still grateful to you for making me aware of the significance of that Twitter sharing button on my blog.
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That’s a lovely journey of being a soloprenuer. Very helpful tips for beginners and newbies.
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I’m in awe of the kind of work you do. So when you appreciate the post saying it’s helpful, I can’t help feeling elated. Thank you for the kind words.
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That’s a wonderful journey, Sonia. Super happy for you. Wish you many such successes in life!
https://www.rohankachalia.com/2018/09/payback-part-3/
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Thank you so much Rohan for the warm wishes and being a great friend.
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I was already inspired just by the title post. It is true we all want to be an entrepreneur and also prefer to do it from a comfortable place. Your journey from a banker to what you are today, is amazing! You have chosen the road less traveled and I appreciate your courage to do so! 🙂
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Thank you for the extremely kind and encouraging words. I am glad to know that you found them inspiring.
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Congrats! It is an inspiring journey indeed 🙂
Seema – Artist & Writer
Lonely Canopy
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Thank you for the kind words.
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Congrtulations! You have such an inspiring journey in a year. The points you shared would definitely help many aspiring bloggers.
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Thank you so much for the kind words. I really hope it helps new bloggers.
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That’s such a happy post. Straight from your heart. I can so well resonate with your journey, it’s never easy to leave a flourishing corporate job to follow your dreams. I also agree that though there are no more salary credits, the happiness quotient is high. Glad to hear about your upcoming YouTube channel. Let me know more about it. I have just entered the blogosphere with my new blog and it’s so inspiring to see one of my blog buddies doing so well. Congratulations for all the achievements you have made in the very first year and wish you many more. You are getting popular day by day! Remain the same forever. Happy Birthday!
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Can I please tell you that you are my inspiration behind the thought of a YouTube channel. I’m so inspired by the awesome work that you do. Infact I plan to take tips from you before implementing the plan. Thank you for the encouraging words dear.
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Get to learn so many things about blog via your blogging experience. Best wishes for your debut novel.
#Myfriendalexa #dewreads
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Thank you for the warm wishes. Glad you found the post helpful m
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That’s really sweet of you 🙂 We must discuss about it soon. Thanks for appreciating, my YouTube channel is one thing that’s really close to my heart 🙂 Waiting for the birthday surprise!
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Yes, will ping you very soon. Expert advice is a must before launching it.
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Anytime 🙂 Not very sure of the ‘expert’ thing but would love to be part of your successful journey!
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❤️❤️❤️
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Congratulations on doing a great job of managing creative writing on blog and book .The speaking event sounds like the cherry on the cake.An inspiring journey indeed
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Thank you for the kind and encouraging words. I look upto you for inspiration.
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Wow Sonia it’s lovely to read about your journey . It is an inspiration for many . You of course are meant for fiction writing . The plot you create or the characters in the story create a gripping effect for the reader . Best wishes for your future journey too .
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Thank you Monika for being a constant source of support and encouragement. You have always been so appreciative of my work that I feel blessed to have you as my friend.
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That is quite a journey. Congratulations and all the best. 🙂
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Thank you for the warm wishes.
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You’re welcome 🙂
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A great post ! My first year wasn’t much good but this year has been great as far as blogging journey is concerned.
Thanks for the great tips. I am still finding my niche.
#msarorasays
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I see a lot of great content on your blog ever since I discovered it a couple of months back. I’m sure you will find your niche eventually. Thank you for the kind words.
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This is amazing! Congratulations and Kudos to you! I wish you more success. All the best! #surreads #myfriendalexa #blogchatter
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Thank you for the kind words and warm wishes.
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I was never a serious blogger, i have been blogging for too many years and Shailaja was among the first bloggers I followed I suppose ❤ Congrats on the journey, hope you have many more years of amazing writng- ness ❤
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So great to connect with a seasoned blogger like you. Shailaja is really wonderful. Thank you for the kind words.
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This is so inspiring! I can relate to the challenges you’ve mentioned in the beginning.
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Thank you for reading. Glad you liked it.
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